Author: Gothic Nightmares🌙

I like your voice

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💀 GOTHIC NIGHTMARES 💀

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I have been teaching myself ukulele for past 2 days and this is what I have taught myself so far. Hoping to teach myself guitar next. This could use lots of work and I am by no means a singer and this was for shits and giggles.

Hi there! I just wanted to ask how you got to be so open/confident in expressing yourself and if there was ever a time you felt pressured from family to be “normal”. Personally, I’ve always been into the gothic aesthetic even when I was younger I just never had the balls to immerse myself into the style in fear of backlash from my family. It might be dumb to care about what they think, but they currently control me financially. Sorry I would say more but there’s a character limit.

Being open is being honest and being yourself, which can help with confidence. I see so many people who ask others how they became so confident when it comes to social media but truthfully we are human and we have insecurities and are self conscious. I don’t think anyone will ever be fully confident and will at some point see a flaw in themselves, the bigger picture is just to realize how good it feels in being confident. Others are gonna be jealous of that and try to tear you down because they want what you have. Don’t let that get you down because someone else is jealous of you, truthfully they are your biggest fan. Also if you can’t love yourself then you can’t love anyone else. As for your family, yes i went through it and still do. I was raised in a super religious house hold, my grandmother being super christian, she burnt a lot of my items and clothes because she thought they were to ‘dark’ and ‘satanic’ I lost a lot due to it because it was my hard earned money thrown away. I started covering myself in piercings and tattoos because I made my own money and was an adult, their judgement turned harder. I made some bad decisons that got me into some hard situations and they blamed it on the culture and said if I didn’t change my life style and choices i’m going to hell. Parents say these things out of “love” but really we take them as criticism because if they really loved us they would accept us for who we are and aspire to be and sadly it just doesn’t work that way. Stand true in who you are and who you aspire to be but remember looking a certain way and wearing certain clothes should not be the boundary to making you goth. Goth is being you, expressing yourself, the beauty of one or mind, etc. I am moved out of my parents home now, and I am still heavily judged.

As a goth girl who gets that shit all the time THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT DRAWING YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! 🖤🖤 it's so tiring the amount of idiots that pester to "be my goth gf" when they actually just want someone to flaunt like a trophy.

The drawing is not mine the creds are in the caption, it was also found on insta @cradleofgoth for more info. But i totally feel your pain bb girl 🖤✨

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To all my goth babes out there that go through this just like me. If you wanted a bitch in a costume then go find you a girl who will dress up for you in the bedroom for your goth dream roleplay/fantasy, instead of us who actually live the lifestyle. It helps us a lot so you are not wasting our time. We find this offensive when we get asked “will you be my goth gf” when you look basic and just asking cause you want us just for looks and as an item/trophy, so that you can show us off to all your friends saying” look what I got.”

Creds to Andi on FB for the artwork

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